So, today at work**, I accidentally wrote an order wrong. I blame the recent sleep deprivation (Atticus has a little stuffy nose so is waking up all. the. time). Consequently, the Provo Bakery currently has 8 dozen too many pies. Delicious meat pies. You know you want to go buy one. Or a dozen.
I should probably be fired.
** PS. I got a job at a bakery. See what a college degree gets you nowadays? At least I can take home delicious bread.
trying our best to keep austin weird.
Wednesday, January 27, 2010
Tuesday, January 26, 2010
Monday, January 25, 2010
Treatise on infant sleeping habits
There has been an ongoing discussion in our mother's lounges (and in priesthood meetings, according to Tim) on getting your baby to sleep through the night. It's kind of an obsession, with the BabyWise series making its rounds through the homes of my fellow ward families. Like, if you're in the 85th ward and have NOT read BabyWise or don't adhere to BabyWise, you are practically shunned.
Last week for Enrichment (meeting for women), we had a lecture on getting your baby to sleep through the night. The presenter was a follower of BabyWise, a popular guide to everything parenting. This method advocates parent-centered parenting, in other words, don't let the baby rule the roost. Don't feed on demand, set a routine, etc. They advise that babies are capable of sleeping through the night at 6-8 weeks. What keeps them from doing this are the three dangerous sleep props, which include: nursing to sleep, rocking to sleep, and co-sleeping. Oops. We do all three. And Atticus is definitely not sleeping through the night. He sleeps all night, that's for sure, but he wakes up to nurse 2-3 times still (last night it was once, at 5:30, after being put down at 11-- GO ATTICUS!) According to this presenter and the BabyWise method, I should just stop feeding him at night. Because babies don't NEED to eat at night if they eat during the day and I need to teach him that. So, I'm supposed to just let him cry his pathetic little hungry cries all night.
Yeah, right! If my baby is hungry, I'm going to feed him! Even if he's actually not hungry and doesn't actually need to eat at night, maybe he just needs the comfort of a mama-breast, and I'm definitely not going to deny him comfort either. Some lofty and not-so-reliable research studies have shown that crying through the night leads to emotional disorders, ADHD, etc. later in life. Even if they are not exactly generalizable with large sample sizes or intervening variables, if there is any chance that what I'm doing now at night will be detrimental to his emotional health later, I will sacrifice an hour or so of sleep at night to nurse him back to sleep. They say the crying it out only lasts a maximum of 14 days, but that's two weeks I'd rather not go through. And maybe if he hits the year mark and is still not sleeping at night, or if I get sleep-deprived enough that I can't function during the day, we'll get him out of our bed and try something new. But for now, it's working for us, we love the arrangement, and Atticus seems to be a happy and healthy little guy. (And corollary to previous post on me not sleeping: I started running every day, and am sleeping much, much better. I had gotten out of the habit when I was large and pregnant, and now getting back into shape has done wonders for my sleep).
But... back to the story: After this presenter began bashing on co-sleeping, my lovely neighbor and fellow co-sleeper decided she could sit quietly no longer, and simply began to outline the reasons she loved sleeping with her daughter (now 18 months, and still nursing at night). And I'll tell you, her daughter is the most securely-attached, well-adjusted, and smartest little toddler you will meet. She's very independent and very friendly to everyone. And her parents love co-sleeping. They love having her around. And I see why, because she is really adorable and absolutely hilarious. But when my neighbor started saying this, the presenter started crying. Why? Still do not know that one. Guilt maybe? Nerves, probably. But either way, our Enrichment that night was pretty dramatic. And the conversation on infant sleep, continues in our ward...
How could you not give in to this little guy? Come on...
Last week for Enrichment (meeting for women), we had a lecture on getting your baby to sleep through the night. The presenter was a follower of BabyWise, a popular guide to everything parenting. This method advocates parent-centered parenting, in other words, don't let the baby rule the roost. Don't feed on demand, set a routine, etc. They advise that babies are capable of sleeping through the night at 6-8 weeks. What keeps them from doing this are the three dangerous sleep props, which include: nursing to sleep, rocking to sleep, and co-sleeping. Oops. We do all three. And Atticus is definitely not sleeping through the night. He sleeps all night, that's for sure, but he wakes up to nurse 2-3 times still (last night it was once, at 5:30, after being put down at 11-- GO ATTICUS!) According to this presenter and the BabyWise method, I should just stop feeding him at night. Because babies don't NEED to eat at night if they eat during the day and I need to teach him that. So, I'm supposed to just let him cry his pathetic little hungry cries all night.
Yeah, right! If my baby is hungry, I'm going to feed him! Even if he's actually not hungry and doesn't actually need to eat at night, maybe he just needs the comfort of a mama-breast, and I'm definitely not going to deny him comfort either. Some lofty and not-so-reliable research studies have shown that crying through the night leads to emotional disorders, ADHD, etc. later in life. Even if they are not exactly generalizable with large sample sizes or intervening variables, if there is any chance that what I'm doing now at night will be detrimental to his emotional health later, I will sacrifice an hour or so of sleep at night to nurse him back to sleep. They say the crying it out only lasts a maximum of 14 days, but that's two weeks I'd rather not go through. And maybe if he hits the year mark and is still not sleeping at night, or if I get sleep-deprived enough that I can't function during the day, we'll get him out of our bed and try something new. But for now, it's working for us, we love the arrangement, and Atticus seems to be a happy and healthy little guy. (And corollary to previous post on me not sleeping: I started running every day, and am sleeping much, much better. I had gotten out of the habit when I was large and pregnant, and now getting back into shape has done wonders for my sleep).
But... back to the story: After this presenter began bashing on co-sleeping, my lovely neighbor and fellow co-sleeper decided she could sit quietly no longer, and simply began to outline the reasons she loved sleeping with her daughter (now 18 months, and still nursing at night). And I'll tell you, her daughter is the most securely-attached, well-adjusted, and smartest little toddler you will meet. She's very independent and very friendly to everyone. And her parents love co-sleeping. They love having her around. And I see why, because she is really adorable and absolutely hilarious. But when my neighbor started saying this, the presenter started crying. Why? Still do not know that one. Guilt maybe? Nerves, probably. But either way, our Enrichment that night was pretty dramatic. And the conversation on infant sleep, continues in our ward...
How could you not give in to this little guy? Come on...
First foods
Last week:
Me: Why is there this orange fleck-y type stuff in Atticus's poop?
Tim: Oh yeah, I forgot to tell you, I fed him a carrot last night.
Me: Lovely.
Me: Why is there this orange fleck-y type stuff in Atticus's poop?
Tim: Oh yeah, I forgot to tell you, I fed him a carrot last night.
Me: Lovely.
Wednesday, January 20, 2010
Obama a year in
Just thought I'd throw my voice in:
Things in which President Obama has disappointed me:
-Unfilled cabinet posts
-Inconsistent trade policy
-Lack of transparency (I thought this was one of the corners he was going to be able to turn)
-An inability to stop blaming President Bush for all the administrations problems
Fulfilled my expectations:
-Setting a less ideological tone on foreign policy (Even if in practice his policies aren't too different, the tone was the biggest problem)
-A thoughtful and rational approach to the wars in which we are engaged
-A decisive and well-informed response to the financial crises
Exceeded expectations:
-John Huntsman as ambassador to China
-The quality of his existing cabinet
-His pragmatic governing from the center (not completely, but much more than any other political figure would have)
Popular criticisms I don't buy:
-National debt: This is mainly the economy's fault, not Obama's. Tax revenue has plummeted and previously commitments are more expensive than planned (unemployment benefits). Discretionary spending (what the current government has direct control over) is rising at about the same rate as during the Bush years (not to say that that is where I'd like to see them stay).
(Graph from marktaw.com)
-Job creation: The US government is terrible at this. The only way to get more jobs is either to spend more money that we don't have or just to wait until they follow the economy back up, as they usually, but not always, do. The Republican's also suggest cutting taxes which will only contradict all their claims of desiring to lower the budget.
-Dealing with Republicans: Republicans have shifted dramatically to the right. Their fear of the Tea Parties will make them the party of No until they realize that it is killing their party.
-Unfulfilled promises: Name me any president in a century that doesn't have a list of these a mile long.
I expect that President Obama will be able to:
-End the wars in the Middle East responsibly
-Return the US to the role of peace maker in the area and a more realistic role globally
-Move our economy away from fossil fuels to green technology
-Realize that fixing health care means lowering cost, bottom line
-Decrease levels of discrimination in the country (blacks, gays and immigrants)
-Continue to move towards the center
I wish he would, but don't expect him to:
-Cut the defense budget dramatically
-Implement smart taxes (like the gas tax)
-Move the country to socialized medicine (it works people)
-Keep all his promises that he hasn't already broken
Would I still vote for Obama: Yes. The Republican party has no feasible direction right now and there's is no better Democrat to vote for.
Things in which President Obama has disappointed me:
-Unfilled cabinet posts
-Inconsistent trade policy
-Lack of transparency (I thought this was one of the corners he was going to be able to turn)
-An inability to stop blaming President Bush for all the administrations problems
Fulfilled my expectations:
-Setting a less ideological tone on foreign policy (Even if in practice his policies aren't too different, the tone was the biggest problem)
-A thoughtful and rational approach to the wars in which we are engaged
-A decisive and well-informed response to the financial crises
Exceeded expectations:
-John Huntsman as ambassador to China
-The quality of his existing cabinet
-His pragmatic governing from the center (not completely, but much more than any other political figure would have)
Popular criticisms I don't buy:
-National debt: This is mainly the economy's fault, not Obama's. Tax revenue has plummeted and previously commitments are more expensive than planned (unemployment benefits). Discretionary spending (what the current government has direct control over) is rising at about the same rate as during the Bush years (not to say that that is where I'd like to see them stay).
-Job creation: The US government is terrible at this. The only way to get more jobs is either to spend more money that we don't have or just to wait until they follow the economy back up, as they usually, but not always, do. The Republican's also suggest cutting taxes which will only contradict all their claims of desiring to lower the budget.
-Dealing with Republicans: Republicans have shifted dramatically to the right. Their fear of the Tea Parties will make them the party of No until they realize that it is killing their party.
-Unfulfilled promises: Name me any president in a century that doesn't have a list of these a mile long.
I expect that President Obama will be able to:
-End the wars in the Middle East responsibly
-Return the US to the role of peace maker in the area and a more realistic role globally
-Move our economy away from fossil fuels to green technology
-Realize that fixing health care means lowering cost, bottom line
-Decrease levels of discrimination in the country (blacks, gays and immigrants)
-Continue to move towards the center
I wish he would, but don't expect him to:
-Cut the defense budget dramatically
-Implement smart taxes (like the gas tax)
-Move the country to socialized medicine (it works people)
-Keep all his promises that he hasn't already broken
Would I still vote for Obama: Yes. The Republican party has no feasible direction right now and there's is no better Democrat to vote for.
Tuesday, January 19, 2010
Atticus's new trick
Atticus has learned to turn pages. He's also learned to watch the camera when it is taping him. So, while this video shows how cool he is, it doesn't do full justice to his page turning abilities. Come over sometime to see him read undistracted.
Monday, January 18, 2010
Racism
Sometimes I wonder if I'm racist. But most of the time I'm pretty sure I am. I just don't think that I can help but treat people different depending on their race or religion. Hopefully someday I'll be able to treat everyone the same, independent of race. But is that the point? We always hear that we aren't supposed to ignore race, just not to discriminate because of it. I think I'm a very respectful person, and am fairly courteous to everyone I meet. But is that enough. Whenever I read books like Malcolm X or Orientalism I realize that not being racist means fighting back against racism, being proactive. It also means being aware that there is racism to be proactive against.
Of course I know that blacks face racism and I've seen plenty of racism against Latinos. But because of my area of study, I've become acutely aware of the racism against Arabs. The example that always sticks out in my mind was during the last presidential campaign when John Mccain responded to someone in the crowd at one of his rallies who accused Barrack Obama of being a Muslim by saying, "No, he's a good American and a good family man," or something close to that. Since when did those these become incompatible with being a Muslim? I do realize of course, that not all Arabs are Muslims, but enough are that when you stereotype Muslims you stereotype the entire middle east. I also realize that John Mccain is not an exceptionally racist person. But the fact that such a comment could come up in a presidential campaign and no one in the media really said anything about it shows how accepted this racism is.
So I've committed to myself to look out for ways in which I can combat racism (like blogging about it) and look to eliminate any traces of racism in my own life. What do you all think are good ways of doing this?
Of course I know that blacks face racism and I've seen plenty of racism against Latinos. But because of my area of study, I've become acutely aware of the racism against Arabs. The example that always sticks out in my mind was during the last presidential campaign when John Mccain responded to someone in the crowd at one of his rallies who accused Barrack Obama of being a Muslim by saying, "No, he's a good American and a good family man," or something close to that. Since when did those these become incompatible with being a Muslim? I do realize of course, that not all Arabs are Muslims, but enough are that when you stereotype Muslims you stereotype the entire middle east. I also realize that John Mccain is not an exceptionally racist person. But the fact that such a comment could come up in a presidential campaign and no one in the media really said anything about it shows how accepted this racism is.
So I've committed to myself to look out for ways in which I can combat racism (like blogging about it) and look to eliminate any traces of racism in my own life. What do you all think are good ways of doing this?
Happy Birthday Meghan McGrath!
Yesterday, we went to a party. We love parties. Actually, not really, I think we mostly just really, really like seeing our friends. Like Ash Mae, Carl, and Analiesa. And Ellen and Sydney and, of course, Meghan (even though we failed to get a picture with her, she was busy making tea and entertaining her guests). Our little Guy was amazing. He was super mellow the whole time, only briefly crying near the end (around 10 pm) to let us know it was time to go home and get into bed. We were so impressed with his ability to hold his own without a nap and way past his bedtime so late in the evening.
There is something about changing my baby's cloth diaper in a kitchen smelling of incense and cinnamon tea that just makes life so satisfying.
There is something about changing my baby's cloth diaper in a kitchen smelling of incense and cinnamon tea that just makes life so satisfying.
Sunday, January 17, 2010
New Year Report
I thought I'd try to better my chances at keeping my New Year's Resolutions if I posted them on the World Wide Web.
This week I:
Read scriptures with my family 5 out of 7 days.
Exercised well 3 out of 7 days and did at least 15 intense minutes 6 days.
Wrote in my journal or on the blog 3 out of 7 days.
Been up before 7 o'clock 5 out of 7 days.
I think there were some other ones, but we'll stick with those for now. Hopefully I can get all of those up to 7 out of 7 or 6 out of 7 for exercise soon, and then I'll move onto some different goals.
Any New Year's resolutions to brag about or moan about? I know this isn't the most original of topics. I promise to post very interesting/controversial/cute Theodore things next week.
This week I:
Read scriptures with my family 5 out of 7 days.
Exercised well 3 out of 7 days and did at least 15 intense minutes 6 days.
Wrote in my journal or on the blog 3 out of 7 days.
Been up before 7 o'clock 5 out of 7 days.
I think there were some other ones, but we'll stick with those for now. Hopefully I can get all of those up to 7 out of 7 or 6 out of 7 for exercise soon, and then I'll move onto some different goals.
Any New Year's resolutions to brag about or moan about? I know this isn't the most original of topics. I promise to post very interesting/controversial/cute Theodore things next week.
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